Q: What should I wear?

A: Suggested attire is “black tie optional”!

 

Q: What is the RSVP deadline?
A: Sooner rather than later, and September 8th rather than never.

 

Q: May I bring a +1?
A: Space limitations have precluded us from inviting many of our own beloved family members and friends… or, for that matter, any guest’s dates. So please, only RSVP for names that appear on the invitation! We are certain you will have a great time with our family and friends (who are way cooler than we are) without a date.

 

Q: Kids. I’ve got 'em. What do I do with 'em?
A: We sadly can't invite any children who aren't in the wedding party, due to the aforementioned spatial restrictions. We hope you will be game to enjoy an adults’ night out with us, though! (And if you are bringing them to visit the CT area, check out the travel/hotel information section for fun family-friendly options!)

 

Q: Will food be served? What about my dietary restrictions? 

A: Dinner will be provided, and options will be available for vegans, vegetarians, and gluten-free folks. If you have another dietary need that we don't know about (being a carboholic doesn't count) please let us know ahead of time.

 

Q: Should I bring dancing shoes?

A: They are optional, but certainly welcomed! (Although you may want to leave the Irish clogs at home.) (On second thought… bring those, too!)

 

Q: Will anyone's last names be changing?
A: Our initials are already so close (ENS and ESN) and our business names are already so similar (Ness and Nescot) that it’d be a shame to make Ed change his name. So, you can continue to call each of us the names you called us before… whatever you called us to our faces, that is!

 

Q: Is there handicap accessibility?

A: The theater has wheelchair-accessible bathrooms, and an elevator. Please alert us ahead of time if you’ll need accessibility options for the stage, as we should make sure to seat you comfortably and appropriately!

 

Q: How can I help?
A: Why, aren't you a dear! As you may or may not know, producing a wedding is rather stressful. If you have a talent that might be put to use -- e.g. crafts, music, lighting, finding mad shopping deals -- and want to share it with us, we will gratefully welcome your help with open arms!